Introduction: Why Boundaries Matter in Ethical Non-Monogamy In ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and polyamory, boundaries are essential for creating healthy, trusting relationships. Setting boundaries isn’t just about saying “yes” to new experiences; it’s also about confidently saying “no” when something feels uncomfortable. In […]
Introduction to Compersion in Polyamory When my fiancée and I first began exploring polyamory, our journey started with dating only female partners together. It was a comfortable way to dip our toes into ethical non-monogamy (ENM). However, when we decided to date […]
When you start seeing a fantastic couple, you go on dates, have fun, and enjoy great experiences. But occasionally, when you want to hang out, you might hear, “Sorry, it’s our date night,” or, “We’re busy with family stuff.” Suddenly, you feel […]
Managing time between multiple partners can be challenging, especially when juggling everyday responsibilities, family life, and long-distance relationships. I live with my primary partner, my fiancée, along with our children, and I also have a long-distance girlfriend who spends most of the […]
Our six-year journey into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and polyamory has been an incredible experience of growth, connection, and learning. Here’s a look at how we started, the challenges we faced, and how our boundaries evolved over time. The Beginning: Learning the Ropes […]
Breakups can be challenging in any relationship, but they can take on unique dynamics in polyamorous settings. This article reflects my personal experiences, and while I don’t claim to be an expert, I can share valuable insights from my journey. Notably, all […]
Introduction My girlfriend and I started our relationship in person when she worked nearby. However, she had always dreamed of going back to school, and when she got accepted halfway across the country, I was both excited for her and apprehensive about […]
Boundaries play a crucial role in the Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) lifestyle. They foster safety, comfort, and happiness among all involved. In this post, I’ll share insights on boundaries from my perspective as a member of a throuple, but these principles apply to […]
Jealousy is often the first thing people ask about when they learn we’re deeply involved in the lifestyle. And when we say “deeply,” we mean it: we go to lifestyle clubs, attend house parties, meet new people at bars, and connect online. […]
I’ve been attending lifestyle clubs in the Greater Toronto Area (GTA) for the past six years, making me something of a regular with weekly visits and various partners. Recently, I finally visited the last club on my list, allowing me to give […]