Introduction to Compersion in Polyamory When my fiancée and I first began exploring polyamory, our journey started with dating only female partners together. It was a comfortable way to dip our toes into ethical non-monogamy (ENM). However, when we decided to date […]
Managing time between multiple partners can be challenging, especially when juggling everyday responsibilities, family life, and long-distance relationships. I live with my primary partner, my fiancée, along with our children, and I also have a long-distance girlfriend who spends most of the […]
Our six-year journey into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and polyamory has been an incredible experience of growth, connection, and learning. Here’s a look at how we started, the challenges we faced, and how our boundaries evolved over time. The Beginning: Learning the Ropes […]
Breakups can be challenging in any relationship, but they can take on unique dynamics in polyamorous settings. This article reflects my personal experiences, and while I don’t claim to be an expert, I can share valuable insights from my journey. Notably, all […]
Introduction My girlfriend and I started our relationship in person when she worked nearby. However, she had always dreamed of going back to school, and when she got accepted halfway across the country, I was both excited for her and apprehensive about […]
Boundaries play a crucial role in the Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) lifestyle. They foster safety, comfort, and happiness among all involved. In this post, I’ll share insights on boundaries from my perspective as a member of a throuple, but these principles apply to […]
Jealousy is often the first thing people ask about when they learn we’re deeply involved in the lifestyle. And when we say “deeply,” we mean it: we go to lifestyle clubs, attend house parties, meet new people at bars, and connect online. […]
Navigating the world of dating as an ethically non-monogamous (ENM) guy presents a set of unique challenges. Whether you’re searching for casual flings, long-term connections, or something in between, finding partners who are genuinely open to or comfortable with ENM can be […]